Choosing Eyeglasses That Suit
Your Personality and Lifestyle

By Erinn Morgan, with updates by Gary Heiting, OD

Because people generally recognize you by your face, the eyeglasses you choose to wear are a very real part of your identity.

Whether you want to appear sophisticated, fun-loving, youthful, conservative or style-conscious, the right eyewear can help you shape how you are perceived. And if you choose to wear only one pair of eyeglasses for everything you do, that says something about you, too!

What Do Your Eyeglasses Say About You?

Eyeglasses can help people see the real you, or they can help create the image you want. The key is to find the right eyeglass frames to match your personality and lifestyle.

The first step, according to eyewear styling experts, is to consider the different aspects of your life. "What do you really want your eyewear for?" asks Robert Marc, eyewear designer and president of Robert Marc Opticians, a chain of upscale optical stores in New York City. "What are the different activities you participate in? What type of work do you do?"

For different looks to suit the occasion, most people can benefit from more than one pair of eyeglasses, just as they need more than one pair of shoes. "The same pair of shoes won't take you from a cocktail party to the volleyball court to the beach to the office," says Marc.

Are you a fast-paced businessperson, an active outdoor enthusiast, a busy mom, a retired senior or a student? Are you a creative person, such as an artist or writer? Or, like most people, do you have a lifestyle that encompasses a number of different activities, interests and personality traits?

To narrow down your choices, consider what eyewear experts suggest in terms of styling, color, material and size for various lifestyles.

Eyeglasses for Serious Business

To help instill trust and confidence among a wide variety of your business clients and colleagues, it's usually best to stay with conservative frame shapes and colors. Consider these choices to enhance your professional image:

• Classic shapes such as ovals, rectangles and almonds.
• Traditional colors of gold and silver.
• In plastic frames, no bright colors or unusual shapes.

"Titanium and stainless steel are also good choices, as are rimless and three-piece mountings," says Richard Morgenthal, owner of New York City eyewear boutique Morgenthal-Frederics.

In terms of color, silver, gunmetal, brown and black are recommended for men because these are easy, conservative tones to wear. Brown, golden tones, silver, burgundy and coffee are good selections for women. See examples.

Eyeglasses That Showcase Your Creativity

Show your creative side with modern shapes, such as geometric designs in thicker and larger plastic frames. Many modern metal frames also can be creative in appearance.

Today's more fashionable, larger-sized eyeglasses also are an option, as are more unusual colors such as blue, green and purple. Multi-colored laminations are another possibility. Morgenthal also recommends lasered details and finishes for this style of frame, because these touches are unusual and very modern. See examples.

Glasses for the Modern Baby Boomer or Senior

Just because you're eligible for an AARP card doesn't mean you have to wear stodgy, old-fashioned glasses. And men: get rid of those huge, old-fashioned metal frames in aviator shapes!

"Everyone wants to look young and modern," says Marc. He recommends frame shapes that are uplifting for the face, such as upswept rectangles for men and soft "cat-eye" shapes for women.

Certain colors also can make you appear younger. Marc suggests gunmetal, deep browns and burgundy for men and lighter, shinier hues for women.

"Shine adds life to the face for women," he says. He also suggests avoiding silver, black and dark, dull colors, just as hairstylists recommend lighter hair coloring for mature women. See examples.

Eyeglasses on Campus

College is a time to develop your own identity — and show your style.

Without constraints such as a conservative office environment, you have a lot more leeway in terms of eyewear styling, including eye-catching colors and shapes. Eyeglass frame experts suggest you take advantage of this freedom. Unusual shapes, bright colors, larger sizes and interesting details such as color laminations all are readily available in a variety of prices and brand names. See examples.

Eyewear for the Busy Mom or Dad

For the busy mom (or dad) on-the-go with little time to worry about the latest trends in eyewear, a basic yet stylish pair of glasses works best.

Ovals, upswept rectangles and soft cat-eye shapes are very functional and still look great. Depending on your personal style, you could choose to amplify the fashion effect of a basic shape with details such as jewelry-like metal accents or recognizable designer logos.

Interesting colors such as plum, deep red, soft green and black can also add a fashion edge to a basic frame. See examples.

Glasses for the Weekend Warrior

Most adults live dual lives — their "normal" 9-to-5 weekday life and their (usually) more active life on the weekends.

Just as dress shoes are the wrong attire for the gym, your regular 9-to-5 eyeglasses are the wrong choice for sports and active wear. For the best comfort, performance and safety during "weekend warrior" hours, choose at least one pair of sport sunglasses or sport eyeglasses.

Styling can range from wraparounds to more conventionally shaped eyeglasses and sunglasses. An important factor in sports eyewear is the lens: polarized lenses can help reduce glare off water, polycarbonate lenses are shatter-resistant for impact sports and various lens tints work to enhance your vision in various lighting conditions. See examples.

A knowledgeable optician can help you choose the best eyewear for your sports vision needs.

Contrary to Popular Belief, One Size Does NOT Fit All

We all like convenience. But the truth is, there are many aspects to your life and personality. And to complement your multi-dimensional lifestyle, you need more than one pair of eyeglasses.

As the fashion-savvy Marc says: "Our customers really wardrobe their eyewear — for the beach and work, as well as for sports and fashion. New eyeglasses are a great way to update your look without buying a whole new wardrobe."

[Page updated July 2009]